As young girls we are taught to fall in love, get married, and live happily ever after. The real world tells us a different story. As women who experienced heartache, we learn to longer trust and believe. Well ladies we need to put our big girl panties and deal with it and move forward when the man you were so much in love with breaks his promise to you.
Ladies let us analyze the reason we hold on to every word a man whispers in our ears or simply say out loud. Did we ever think or imagine he was only telling us what we desired to hear? Did we really know what he said was “BS” but made a bad choice and ignored it? The answer maybe we are hopeful that he will keep his promise. There is nothing wrong with being hopeful. But ladies we must also remember we do not have the power to change a man to do better. All we can honestly do is do better on how we react to his broken promise to us.
For example, when a man tells you he loves you and wants to be with before sleeping with him, you believe him. When he stops calling you after he sleeps with you, the heartache begins and you say things you later regret. You do things that make you end up the fool and not him. He is having fun with the next woman. Instead of succumbing to acting like a fool syndrome, take it as a lesson learned and move on. Forgive yourself and him and move on. If you don’t, you will become an angry and bitter woman. B You must follow your gut instincts when you sense a man is going to break his promise to you. Do not play the victim role and tell your sad story to the next man. He may use it against you. Please do not give the man who contributed to your heartache make you believe all men will hurt you. That is not true. There are good men out there. You have to be the one to love yourself first to attract that good man.
Make a promise to yourself to believe you are a Queen and deserve to be treated like one. Never break that promise to yourself. When you do, it will be hard for a man to break his promise to you.
By Claire Guerre